Do You Wear Your Engagement Ring On Your Wedding Day

As your big day gets closer, all the little details start to matter.

One that often comes up is do you wear your engagement ring on your wedding day or should you leave it off until after the ceremony?

The truth is, there’s no right or wrong answer. Some couples choose not to wear it at all during the vows, while others prefer to include it in their own way.

Here at Villiers Hotel, we’ve seen it all when it comes to the ring exchange from traditional takes to completely unique touches.

In this article, we’ll share our insight on the different options to consider for your special day, helping you decide what feels right for you.

Different Ways To Wear (Or Not Wear) Your Engagement Ring On Your Wedding Day

Leaving it at home

For those who want the wedding day to focus on the new ring, some choose not to wear their engagement ring at all during the ceremony.

Wearing it on your right hand

Some couples prefer to move their engagement ring to their right hand for the ceremony. This way the left hand is reserved solely for the wedding band, symbolising the new commitment.

Putting it on after the ceremony

Another lovely option is to keep the engagement ring safe during the ceremony and then put it back on afterwards, often during the reception. 

Having your partner place both rings

Some couples prefer to have their partner place the wedding band on first during the ceremony, followed by the engagement one. Traditionally, this is because the wedding band was believed to sit on the ring finger closest to the heart.

Walking down the aisle with your engagement ring

If you’re not fussed about whether your engagement ring or wedding band goes on first, why not walk down the aisle with your engagement ring already on? This can save your partner from having to put both rings on during the ceremony and keeps the focus on your new wedding ring.

Wearing it on a chain

If you don't want to wear both rings, some couples choose to put their engagement ring on a necklace during the ceremony. This keeps it close to the heart while still including it in the day’s meaningful moments.

Wrapping Up Your Engagement And Wedding Ring Decisions

So there you have it! Whether you decide to wear your engagement ring on your wedding day or not, the choice is completely yours.

A few top tips from us would be if you plan to wear your wedding band alongside your engagement ring, make sure they fit comfortably together.

And don’t forget to keep everyone involved in the loop to avoid any surprises on the day.

For more helpful insights on wedding rings check out our sister property’s articles on "Do Wedding Bands Have To Match?" and "Do Wedding Rings Have To Be Gold?."

FAQS Related To Do You Wear Your Engagement Ring On Your Wedding Day

Should I wear my engagement ring during the wedding ceremony?

There’s no rule saying you must wear your engagement ring during the ceremony. Some couples choose to wear it throughout, while others prefer to leave it off until after the vows. 

Can I choose not to wear my engagement ring on my wedding day?

Absolutely! You can choose not to wear the engagement ring on your wedding day whether that be for comfort, style, or personal reasons. It’s your special moment, so do what makes you happiest.

Is it traditional to wear the engagement ring before or after the wedding band?

Often the wedding band is placed first followed by the engagement ring on top. However, many couples today choose the order that feels most meaningful or comfortable to them.